So we are having a baby in May and both of us are a little worried and scared. We both want me to stay home with baby until 9 months or so then maybe try to work part time. Neither of us want daycare for our children.
He is very worried about money. I know there are people out there that have lots of kids and make less than us. I know there is a way, if we both just work at it. He is still worried.
How do we do this happily? How do I convince him we can and will be able to survive?
I dont want to stay home if he is just going to be worried and upset the whole time. I want us to both be happy I am home with the baby and I want us both to give up the better life to make a better life for our baby. Make sense?